#S23E02 : The Being Mary Jane Syndrome Episode (Snippet)

Men/Boys will become infatuated by the successful woman. A woman who has her ish together, they find it sexy that she's been through so much and still managed to come out strong it's beautiful to them, she's flawless and can do no wrong. The more the woman tells them about her success the more and more excited they become. They feel like she deserves to be treated like a queen. However some men/boys forget what that means. They also forget the qualities that a successful woman holds. If you date her you will probably find that she's BUSY, she likes consistency, seems controlling or demanding, and is strong. However it's no longer sexy when you see it on a daily basis, now she's tarnishing your manhood. I call it the "Being Mary Jane Syndrome"

All of these strong women are always battling something no matter how strong they are. They are seeking love or acceptance from one SPECIFIC man. A man that they do not even know exists because they've created this fictional being in their heads. Needless to say, these women could be financially stable and deal with self esteem issues, they could be confident but deal with letting go, they could be bold but deal with daddy issues. All women are different and no man will ever be able to love all women, you can only love the one whose flaws aren't stabs at your manhood but are strengths to your manhood. Challenge yourself to love a strong woman and you will see that you too come out stronger.